Benefits of Challenges

Who wants problems or challenges?

For some people, challenges are supposed to be prevented as much as possible. They consider them as nuisance, something to avoid or to get rid of quickly.

But as far I'm concerned, challenges add spice to the routines of life.

Without challenges, life can be boring. . . unproductive. . . predictable. . . and worst of all, without challenges, life is simply lifeless.

What are some of the benefits of challenges?

. . .they stimulate the brain to create, innovate, analyze, discover, and problem solve

. . .they encourage people to establish a stronger team, where each member is strengthened by another

. . .they change the habitual pace of life into a more adventurous journey

. . .they reveal the vast potential of man during the most trying times

. . .they set in motion the drive to go beyond the norm

Challenges provide more life to an already wonderful existence.

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Creating a Successful Team

One of the four tenets of emotional intelligence is relationship management.

Relationship management doesn't only mean that we should be nice and pleasant to people. It doesn't only mean that we should be able to establish rapport, create positive relationships, be sensitive to people's concerns, and hang out with wonderful individuals.

Relationship management also means that we should be proactive in establishing successful relationships. It means that we should create a "team" that can hasten our productivity, expedite our success, and quicken our service to others.

Each member of the team strengthens the resolve and determination to succeed. Each one encourages, provides support, stimulates the vision, and compensates for the weaknesses of others.

If you want to make a difference, creating a successful team is imperative.

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How Can You Motivate Your Kids to Write Thank You Notes?

The other day, a reporter of a major newspaper phoned asking for advice. She wanted some tips on how to teach kids on writing 'thank you' notes.

Honestly, there's really no quick answer nor best advice for this type of questions. Teaching gratitude to kids is not a walk in the park. Like any behavior, showing gratitude requires time and practice.

Anyway, here are my suggestions:

1) Show the process of saying thank you and writing thank you notes in front of your kids. Show it to them each time you have the opportunity -- as frequently as possible.

2) Always look for an opportunity to show gratitude.

3) Encourage them to say thank you when receiving anything (even small or simple things) from anyone.

4) Start the practice of gratitude as young as possible.

5) Directly or indirectly, talk about the importance of gratitude during family dinner or before going to bed. Make it fun and don't sound like giving a lecture.

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